👑 Get On Your Throne, Queen: Your Royal Court

Finding Your Tribe, Setting Standards, and Releasing the Freeloaders With Love

“Your crown is sacred. Let people close who know how to treat royalty.”

Every queen has a court.
Some ride with you in silence.
Some shout your name from the rooftops.
And some?
Well... let’s just say some were only there for the free body butter and tea they didn’t earn. 😤

I used to think being a real one meant letting everybody in.
Cousins, friends, play cousins, church folks who smiled weird — I gave too much, too fast, to too many.
And guess what I learned?

Loyalty don’t live in bloodlines.
Support don’t always wear the face you expect.
And some folks don’t deserve front-row seats to your glow-up.

👥 Who’s in My Royal Court?

✨ My Daughters – The princesses turned warriors. They hold me down, lift me up, and now help run this business like little bosses.

✨ My Husband – The survivor king. Even through recovery, he’s been sharpening his voice and showing up in powerful ways. His strength reminds me why this brand exists — and trust, he’s been communicating for the brand in ways that bring in love AND sales. Period.

✨ My True Friends – Not the “girl, you still doing that little business?” crowd — I’m talking the ones who send prayers, share my posts, and show up with coffee and a charger.

✨ My Customers Turned Sisters – You queens who show love, tag your orders, DM encouragement? Y’all are part of this queendom forever.

❌ Who Had to Be Released?

Listen…
You can love people and still protect your peace.
I had to release:

• The ones who only show up when they want something.

• The family who take but never pour back.

• The friends who vanished when things got real.

• The “supporters” who never spend a dime but got a million opinions.

And I didn’t do it loud.
I did it lovingly.
I did it so I could breathe again.

💎 Building a Court That Reflects Your Crown

Here’s what I’ve learned:

✔️ If they make you question your worth, they gotta go.
✔️ If they cheer for your boundaries, they can stay.
✔️ If they celebrate the version of you that’s healed AND glowing? That’s family.

👑 Queen’s Note:

“Not everyone can walk with royalty.
Some will fumble your crown just trying to hold it.
Let them go.
Keep your circle sacred.
And when you find your tribe, love them like royalty — because that’s what y’all are.”